Here we are, another year, blessed and grateful! Looking back on the past decade, is your life really moving forward or just moving in circles? Are you inviting the growth you need to win or are you just switching out players to keep playing the game? Has the lesson been learned? Well, for some it has. When you know your past experiences taught you to manifest into someone greater... the lesson of knowing every tear that falls is a sign of strength... the transformation of loving yourself and knowing your worth...demanding the respect you KNOW you deserve... accepting your peace in the specific time it's delivered, then you are evolving.
2020 is the year of clarity! Welcome and value the positive energy and know your purpose. Everyone is not going to initially understand your vision. But through your process, allow them to see the evolution of "you". No need to hide or be shameful, we're imperfect human beings. Sometimes the wrong choice takes us to the right place. Feel the need to no longer explain the basic principles of loyalty and respect; we're getting too old for that. Reassurance hits different when it's not requested. Stop looking for something that‘s not there. Two of the many things life teaches us: no one is permanent and life has to move on. With that being said, find comfort in knowing that what you are currently experiencing is a transformation course progressing into something beautiful.
For those of you that are still revolving, it's time to break the cycle. Take time to figure out what's needed to move forward. Be accountable for your actions instead of allowing people to justify them. Learn to be unselfish and not self centered. Let go of past insecurities and be confident in who you are.
Someone once said to me, a caterpillar is slow, stagnant and looking to see who's looking, can be such an easy catch. But once you go through those changes to evolve into a beautiful butterfly, bright and vibrant with wings to take you beyond your dreams, the catch isn't so easy. I'm that butterfly!
As 2019 comes to an end, some of us spent bringing the new year where we wanted to be, had to be, didn’t want to be, wishing to be or simply needed to be. I spent mine just where I needed to be!
”The woman who does not require validation from anyone is the most feared individual on the planet. Keep that attention seeking stuff, I prefer the respect"
Happy New Year 2020!
Beautiful first of the year message ❤❤❤