November 15, 2019
Does it matter how many times he/she says sorry? Do you truly believe the apology? You know, an apology followed by the same repeated behavior is a lie. Ouch! But it's the truth. When you chose to forgive someone, the forgiveness is for you not them. No sense of holding on to bad feelings from a situation you cannot change. Forgiveness allows you to move forward and seek the positive aspects in life. It grants a peace of mind and halts the pampering of negative energy.
Second chances are given to those who we believe deserve them. Regardless if it's a relationship, friendship or business, we as individuals have to deal with the consequences if it doesn't work out. If the foundation of your relationship is strong, second chances can be worthwhile. There may be some surface cracks in that foundation, but it's up to person given that chance to repair them.
Depending on the circumstances, I believe most people deserve a second chance. If you want to give more than a second chance, that's your choice! At that point forgiveness =LOVE. Don't allow anyone to cloud your judgement on who and how you should forgive. Your peace is your peace!
"Today I decided to forgive you. Not because you apologized or acknowledged the pain you caused me, it's because my soul deserves peace"
Amen!